Constantly urging others to grow and make progress will generate resentment. Because the so-called "growth and progress" is a transfer of anxiety. Others' lives are originally balanced, but you insist on creating an imbalance, which is equivalent to denying their current life. #余币宝年化收益破24%# #Gate Launchpad IKA上线# #以太坊交易量飙升#

Never explain yourself to others; those who understand you do not need words, and those who do not understand you will not be convinced no matter what you say. Those who know me know my worries, while those who do not know me wonder what I seek. A thousand people may drink tea but taste it differently; ten thousand people may walk the same path but have different hearts. It is fortunate if someone understands me; it is solitary if no one does. Live for oneself, not bound by others.

If others do not respect you, it may be your problem. These seven details can make others value you more: First, don't always wear a smile on your face; perpetual smiling can come off as an apology. Maintain a calm facial expression and neutral gaze. Boundless kindness will only invite contempt. Second, move slowly and deliberately; hurried actions will expose your nervousness, while tranquility will showcase your control. This indicates a person who knows their own strength. Third, speak concisely and powerfully; lengthy discourse loses its impact. Precise expression is necessary to capture a

A person's luck depends on their ability to change themselves; between people, no one is inherently more noble than anyone else. The biggest dividing line is simply whether someone is willing to change through persistence and improve in the process, while others give up in laziness and worsen through that abandonment. If you are dissatisfied with your current self, you can either accept it or change it, rather than repeatedly consuming yourself in anxiety and self-blame. True self-redemption often begins with acknowledging shortcomings and daring to reshape oneself. Starting today, even a slig

The less knowledgeable a person is, the more stubborn they become. Clearly wrong yet clinging tightly to their viewpoint, their voice grows louder and their expression darker. The more you reason with them, the more agitated they become. When a person's understanding is low, their inner self is more fragile; what they are truly fighting against is not you, but the fear of being seen through. When they vaguely sense they might be wrong, their first reaction is not to reflect, but to transform that into aggression, masking their inner turmoil with loudness, momentum, and even life suppression. T

When you are with someone and feel unrestricted, that feeling is love. Because in front of this person, you do not feel inferior, nor do you have to deliberately show superiority; you can maintain a calm and stable natural state, and that is true love. #ETH突破3600# #特朗普施压鲍威尔# #山寨季何时到来？#

Since I was young, my parents have always taught me not to spend money recklessly and not to buy anything flashy or impractical. So I have worked hard to restrain myself; whenever I develop a fondness for something or have the thought of wanting to do something, I would desperately suppress that desire. As days go by, this restraint has long become a habit, and I have become a person who "has nothing I want, nothing I want to do, no pursuits, no desires." When life falls into a numb routine day after day, I realize that becoming a person without desires is not a good thing. When restraint grad

Love is not sex, a kiss is not love, a promise is not love, and being inseparable is not love. Love is when you are misunderstood by the whole world, but he stands firmly by your side. Love is when you are sick and in pain, he carefully meets your every need. Love is when you fail, he encourages you to try again, never abandoning you. Love is when no one is watching, still holding your bottom line for you, and love is when you are miles apart, yet your heart always regards him as your home.

Depth intimate relationships allow for the full expression of aggression. There is a saying in "The Little Prince": It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important. Good relationships are not devoid of cracks; rather, they are relationships that produce cracks but do not break apart, and they involve shared experiences of trimming and adjustment. Hidden aggression does not disappear; one day it will erupt in a more ugly manner. When emotions are allowed to be expressed, seen, and accepted, and are transformed in the flow, after experiencing emotional shocks, it i

Be bold to be yourself, bravely express your feelings, because those who care do not matter, and those who matter will not care. Those who know me say my heart is troubled, while those who do not know me ask what I seek. #BTC再创新高# #我的Gate时刻# #ETH突破3000#

At night, when walking in the house, your feet lift and land lightly, afraid of disturbing others. When handing scissors to someone, you point the blade towards yourself. When walking on the sidewalk, you try to stay close to the edge, leaving more space for people passing by. When shopping in the supermarket, even if someone else opened the freezer, you will casually close it tightly. Even when your emotions are collapsing, you are still afraid of affecting others. Have you realized it? You are so delicate and beautiful, and you have always been releasing kindness to this world, but why can't

Don't hand over the initiative of your life to others. If you don't create the world you like, someone will make you create the world they like. If you don't center yourself, someone will want you to center them. If you don't pursue your own dreams, someone will buy your time to fulfill their dreams. If you don't buy yourself gifts you like, someone will make you buy gifts they like. If you don't cheer yourself up every day, someone will instruct you to cheer them up every day. If you don't project yourself, you will be projected by others. If you don't take responsibility for your own life, n

If you observe the people around you, those who get angry easily are not wise, and their lives are surely a mess. You should never be angry. All anger is foolish; a master only has one thing in mind, which is to solve problems. If you can't solve it, then find another way to solve it. Never let emotions lead you astray. #Gate VIP理财送茅台# #美加征关税#

When faced with a conceited opponent, the best approach is not to refute him, but to publicly ask him a question that you are already very familiar with. His answer, regardless of its depth, will pale in comparison to your composure. #GT 2025第二季度销毁# #马斯克计划成立美党# #MichaelSaylor暗示增持BTC#

A person has two goals in life: to find the thing they like the most in this world and to find the person who is most emotionally and spiritually compatible with them. #GT 2025第二季度销毁# A person has two goals in life: to find the thing they like the most in this world and to find the person who is most emotionally and spiritually compatible with them.

People come close to you because you have value. The reason they distance themselves is that you are no longer important. The deepest essence of human nature is selfishness and loneliness. Understanding this, you will no longer cling to seeking from the outside, will not rely on anyone, and will not overestimate your position in others' hearts. Life is merely an experience; school, work, marriage, even illness and death are just scenery along the journey. Accept everything that happens, allow regrets, permit failures, accept the impermanence of life, and even allow yourself to be disliked, as

A truly great person can become a child under the sun and an adult in the wind and rain; this is what is called formlessness. A formless person can navigate all the myriad phenomena of life, donning splendid garments to calm the winds and rains of the court, or wearing plain clothes to engage with the muddied waters of the market. This is the way of a gentleman who is not confined by tools, whose essence is transparent, and who sees the transformations in others. The highest wisdom in life is to live like flowing water, becoming round when meeting round shapes and square when encountering squa

We must teach our children to be strong, and the first rule of being strong is to enjoy conflict. When we enjoy conflict, we truly sit at the social table. Many conflicts are artificially created, aimed at making you feel scared and think there is something wrong with you, leading you to constantly reflect, feel wronged, and protect superficial harmony. The truth of conflict is that it challenges you and takes away your interests, including why children are bullied at school, which is actually due to a fear of conflict. Only when children dare to engage in conflict and games with others can th

In interpersonal communication, refusing others doesn't require a reason. Always remember what I said: just say no, there’s no need for an explanation. If you try to explain, what you explain will definitely contain content, and the other party will look for loopholes in your content. So, let's keep it simple: just refuse directly without adding reasons. This way, your sense of boundaries will be very strong. What kind of logic is this? We must do it this way: answer what people ask in society, do not answer if not asked, do not probe too deeply, and do not say too much. You will find that tho

Never tell your story to the so-called acquaintances around you, and don't naively think that these so-called acquaintances will treat you well; sometimes, they can be scarier than strangers. #Gate 30天净流入全球第一# #特朗普税改法案# #灰度数字大盘 ETF#