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When we are waiting for the outcome of something, we often focus our attention on imagining various possibilities of the event, making it difficult to concentrate on other tasks. The process of imagining and guessing consumes a lot of mental energy, which can easily lead us into uncontrollable anxiety, thereby affecting our life and work state.

All these tyrants in chaotic times, all those with sinister intentions, aspiring to be dictators, and those who have already become dictators—all share a highly consistent trait: when they speak or act for themselves, their words are always particularly grandiose, filled with justice, responsibility, and saving the masses, full of benevolence and morality. They never claim to come to seize power; instead, they say they are here to "rescue the suffering."
The so-called "rescuing all beings from the hanging pain" is an apt description—it's as if the common people are hanging upside down, sufferi

How to tell if someone considers you a friend? As long as it's something you did, if they only focus on the process and not the outcome, then they see you as one of their own. But if they only look at the result and ignore the process, then you are an outsider, and all your efforts and hard work are less impactful than a good outcome. Therefore, in front of outsiders, the means are secondary, and the result is what matters most.

Two people with different blessings and different lucks find it hard to last long. Those with a good script find it difficult to be with those with a poor script, and it's hard to become friends or partners. Even if they come together, it is often the person with the better script who is in a low point. If they can maintain long-term compatibility, generally the person with the better script will continue to support the weaker areas, using their high energy to compensate for the other's low energy. When two people's energies are mismatched and cannot support each other's luck, they are destine

The greatest mission of any man in his lifetime should be the pursuit of freedom. Day after day, if you do not pursue freedom, you will become increasingly trapped in an invisible prison called "normalcy."

Don't over-conserve items that are used very frequently. Because these things are used repeatedly every day, the feelings they evoke—whether comfortable or uncomfortable—are directly and continuously perceivable. If an item is used very often but always provides a poor experience, we tend to comfort ourselves with, "I'll replace it with a better one when conditions improve." But over time, your subconscious will gradually develop a coping pattern of "making do and settling." Even if conditions do improve in the future, inertia may cause you to continue tolerating the discomfort. More important

The one thing humans are best at is packaging their own problems as others' problems. As long as they can blame others, there's no need to reflect on themselves. As long as they can throw out their emotions, there's no need to take responsibility. But reality is cruel. The more you are repeatedly hit by the same type of person, the more it shows that you are still stuck in the same structure. So you'll find that for the same issue, some people can easily move on, while others can't get past it in their entire lives. The difference isn't in the matter itself, but in whether there is a part of t

Oscar Wilde once said, "When I was young, I thought money was everything. Now that I am old, I realize it truly is."

What is good fortune? Adequate food and clothing, peace and quiet, and自由迁徙 (free migration).

Strong-minded individuals can command a thousand troops and ten thousand horses alone. True strength is not about how much force you have, but about having an unbreakable spirit within. It helps you transcend fear, don an invisible armor, stay calm in the face of challenges, and refuse to retreat in adversity. This confidence comes from a clear self-awareness and resilience built through repeated falls and rises. Such people can manage themselves well and stabilize those around them. Their unwavering determination is like a silent horn that can ignite the confidence of the entire team. Its inf

Some say they have lived cautiously, step by step, honestly, and by the rules into middle age. Now, they want to rebel and try everything they haven't done before! They ask everyone about some of the most worthwhile things to try. Someone replied that they want a divorce, want to abandon wife and children, and have a passionate affair that could be life or death. Why do people have such thoughts? Actually, many people don't suddenly want to "experience life," but finally run out of energy to continue suppressing themselves.

What you cannot control will manifest. If emotions are uncontrollable, anger will show. If wealth is uncontrollable, greed will be exposed. If power is uncontrollable, arrogance will dominate. Therefore, true noble people are not arrogant or extravagant, true masters do not have a sword-like aura, and true beauties are not pretentious. Because they have fully mastered their inner selves, they return to simplicity and authenticity, leaving no trace.

The first principle of parent-child relationships is separation, not possession. The first principle of separation is independence, not obedience. The first principle of independence is experience, not avoiding pitfalls. The first principle of experience is trial and error, not perfection. The first principle of trial and error is backing, not blame. The first principle of backing is trust, not anxiety. The first principle of trust is role models, not preaching.

In China, the entire system refuses to admit mistakes in order to maintain stability because the cost of admitting errors is systemic collapse. People often say "admit mistakes and correct them," but in large-scale systems, the logic is completely opposite; this is called the curse of path dependence. When a wrong direction has already incurred huge costs and built countless利益链条, this mistake becomes a "truth" that must be maintained. Admitting mistakes means that everyone profiting from this chain must exit, and the system cannot bear that cost. Therefore, the system tends to favor a bigger m

Did you know? Different ripeness levels of bananas serve different purposes. Green bananas: high in resistant starch, slow digestion, help stabilize blood sugar and improve gut health. Yellow bananas: starch converts to sugar, quick absorption, suitable for replenishing energy and stamina. Spotted bananas: sweeter and softer, slightly higher in antioxidants, easier to digest. Black bananas: not suitable for direct consumption, can be used as a natural sweetener for baking or sugar substitution.

Many parents actually don't know what they are doing. We just hope our children listen, behave well, and follow our instructions. But for a three-year-old child, what they need most is not "good behavior," but a close relationship and a sense of security with their parents. Without this relationship, the child is psychologically "unable to survive." Therefore, the most frightening thing for a child is to lose their parents' love and acceptance. However, many times, when parents are dissatisfied, they scare the child in this way: ignoring them, saying they don't love them anymore, or threatenin

The most dangerous harm in the world is not others denying children, but parents making children feel unworthy of love. If a child is constantly belittled at home, they will keep seeking validation from others in the world. Don't be the first destroyer of a child's self-worth.

If a wealthy person likes you, it definitely means they truly like you because they have many options. If a person with no money likes you, it might just mean they can only like you.

How to cultivate children to become confident people? There are two things we can truly do: The first is to remember: confidence comes from ability, not praise. Simply telling children "You are great" or "You are excellent" will not truly make them feel outstanding. What truly builds confidence is a sense of competence, helping them develop skills. The second is: help children understand their own feelings and learn to read their surroundings. When they can perceive "How am I feeling right now" and "Is my judgment of the environment accurate," they will start to trust themselves. And trusting

In China, in the past, everyone was taught that with reason you could travel the world, and without reason you could hardly move an inch. Now, shamelessness travels the world, and honesty makes it hard to take a single step. Good deeds are riddled with holes, while bad deeds are flawless. Bad people are confident in their wickedness, while good people are battered and bruised. On stage, they talk about rules, but off stage, they rely on relationships. They mouth justice, but their hearts are full of interests. On the surface, they appear righteous, but their words are filled with sordid deals.