People who are easily angered are all order-oriented personalities, always harboring a sense of what should and shouldn't be. You believe that things should be done a certain way, but whenever something happens that deviates from your expectations, you become furious. What triggers your anger is not how serious the matter is, but the fact that it shouldn't have happened in the first place. Human suffering does not stem from the event itself, but from irrational beliefs that absolute, should, and must be attached to it. Maturity is not about doing everything according to expectations, but about calmly accepting the occurrence of the unexpected. When you seek order, you only get superficial order; when you embrace randomness, you gain control of the overall situation. We must learn to allow everything to happen.

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