If you want to become awesome, you must learn a skill called being unapproachable. Truly talented people only see themselves; they see no one else. In their eyes, the people and air around them are indistinguishable. In fact, most of our suffering comes from carrying too many others in our hearts. When you judge others by the standards of a saint, thinking I treat you well and you must treat me well, once there is no response, you will doubt yourself. I originally had a heart that shines like the bright moon, but alas, the bright moon shines into the ditch. Expectations are always pleas from those at the bottom to those at the top; as long as you have expectations of others, you are kneeling before them.