They say men should buy a house before marriage

I think it's more suitable for women to buy a house before marriage
Just pay the down payment to buy a house
Then put your own name on it
When the time comes to get married
You can tell the man that there's no need to buy a house
Renting is enough
At this point, your husband's family
Will still be grateful and praise you for being sensible
Then you both move into the house you bought
And make your husband wake up early every day to earn money to pay the rent for you
Secretly use that money to pay the mortgage
This way, it eases the man's pressure to buy a house
And solves the conflict caused by the house deed not being in your name
Living in a house that is truly yours
Even if life isn't great, the house is still yours
If you get divorced, you don't have to worry about property division