Spring Festival is not relaxing, but rather exhausting. It's not because of visiting relatives, but because— Spring Festival feels like a high-intensity performance review of life. Asking about marriage, partners, income, all fundamentally ask the same question: 👉 Over the past year, have you "delivered results"? In childhood, Spring Festival allowed you to be "nothing at all." But now, Spring Festival implicitly expects you to: • Keep up with progress • Stay in the race • Compare yourself to others The so-called "taste of the New Year fading," may not be due to the loss of rituals, but because for a long time, we haven't been allowed to just be ourselves. This is a topic that Brother Cat thinks is worth discussing slowly.
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More and more adults feel that:
Spring Festival is not relaxing, but rather exhausting.
It's not because of visiting relatives,
but because—
Spring Festival feels like a high-intensity performance review of life.
Asking about marriage, partners, income,
all fundamentally ask the same question:
👉 Over the past year, have you "delivered results"?
In childhood, Spring Festival
allowed you to be "nothing at all."
But now, Spring Festival implicitly expects you to:
• Keep up with progress
• Stay in the race
• Compare yourself to others
The so-called "taste of the New Year fading,"
may not be due to the loss of rituals,
but because for a long time,
we haven't been allowed to just be ourselves.
This is a topic that Brother Cat thinks is worth discussing slowly.